My kids watch me as I spend most of my day taking care of others: fixing meals, patching up skinned knees, settling arguments, folding laundry. But when I put on my running shoes, they know that I'm heading out for some personal time. When I come back, I'm hot and sweaty, but I'm also relaxed and refreshed.
I want my kids to know that taking care of themselves is just as important as taking care of others. Not in a narcissistic way, but if we do not care for ourselves, what could we possibly offer to anyone else? A broken foundation can do little to support its surrounding structure. Since I feel like the foundation for my family, I know that I need to care for myself, and I want my kids to learn this lesson, too.
Running is the mortar that helps hold the bricks of my foundation in place. |
Even if running does not become their lifelong habit, I hope they find something to do that is just for them. Perhaps it will be music, woodworking, poetry, or cycling. I don't care what it is. I just hope that they find it and cherish it as much as I do running.